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Breaking the Spell: How to Get Out of the “Buy New” Mindset

  • Breaking the Spell: How to Get Out of the “Buy New” Mindset

    We’re taught from the jump that if something’s not working—an outfit, a room, a relationship—the solution is to replace it. Fast. The idea that “new equals better” is stitched into the seams of modern life, reinforced by ads, algorithms, and influencers who promise transformation with the click of a button. But here’s the thing: most…

  • The Life Cycle of an IKEA Couch: From Factory Floor to Landfill (or Rebirth)

    In the world of disposable convenience, few objects illustrate our shifting values like the humble IKEA couch. Affordable, stylish, and accessible, it’s a staple of first apartments, student lounges, and starter homes. But what happens before and after it enters your living room? This is the story of its lifecycle—from origin to afterlife. 1. Birth:…

  • Design Your Home Like a Gardener

    What if you treated your home less like a product and more like a living thing? We’ve been trained to think of design as an event. A reveal. A before-and-after. Something you knock out in a weekend with a credit card and a shopping list. But real homes—the ones that feel soulful, layered, and alive—don’t…

  • Why (some) Bouclé is Bad News

    Let’s talk about bouclé. You’ve seen it everywhere—on TikTok, in every influencer’s home, wrapped around curved sofas that all look like oversized marshmallows. It’s the texture of the moment. The shorthand for “elevated.” The darling of design trends that prioritize the look of luxury over the longevity of anything. But behind the nubby, cozy facade,…

  • “Obsessed” with Nothing: Influencers, Consumerism, and the Language of Clutter

    You’ve seen the videos. A glossy hand opens a box with a flourish. There’s soft music, fast edits, maybe a pinky ring tapping against plastic wrap. The caption reads:“OBSESSED. Run, don’t walk.” What’s in the box? A new set of “aesthetic” laundry bins. A plastic spice rack with matching labels. Another acrylic drawer system promising…

  • Low Cost Patio Transformation

    This year, I swore I was going to make myself a comfortable outdoor space where I could enjoy the Summer with my dog. Problem was, due to unexpected events, I wasn’t exactly swimming in cash. So, it was time to get creative. I knew I wanted a slat wall, a ton of plants, a comfortable…

  • Laudry’s Dirty Secrets

    What’s In Your Laundry Detergent (And What to Use Instead) Let’s talk about something most people use every single week — but rarely think twice about: laundry detergent. Those bottles lined up at the store promising “Mountain Spring” or “Fresh Breeze”? They’re full of synthetic chemicals, many of which aren’t just bad for your skin…

  • We Deserve Better Design Shows

    Let’s get one thing straight: most design shows are fantasy. Not the good kind — not imaginative, experimental, inspiring fantasy. No, they’re more like the Disneyland of interiors: scripted, sanitized, and surgically airbrushed to make the mess of real life disappear. What they offer isn’t design. It’s theater. You’ve seen the formula: A chipper host…

  • 5 Ugly Truths About New Furniture

    Most of us don’t think twice about grabbing a new desk online or upgrading a sofa when the style feels stale. But behind every shiny new furniture purchase is a web of environmental damage that’s easy to ignore—and costly to the planet. Here are five reasons to rethink the cycle of buying new: 1. It’s…

  • How Color Affects Mood: Choosing the Right Hue for Every Room

    Color isn’t just a visual experience — it’s a psychological one. It shapes how we feel in a space before we ever have a chance to think about it. A room’s color can soothe or energize, focus or distract, uplift or overwhelm. That’s why choosing the right hue for the right room is one of…

  • A Tale of Two Plant Havens: Paraíso Plant Studio & Crimson Horticultural Rarities in the East bay

    Welcome to the first installment of my new series: the East Bay Plant Crawl. I’ll be making my way through local nurseries, garden shops, and hidden green gems across the Bay Area, searching for the best plants, the best prices, and the most inspiring spaces. Whether you’re a seasoned collector or a casual houseplant lover,…

  • Working With an Interior Designer—And How to Choose the Right One

    Hiring an interior designer can feel like a luxury. But in reality, it’s a smart move—especially if you’re trying to avoid expensive mistakes, make the most of what you already have, or create a space that reflects who you are (and not just the latest trends on HGTV). That said, not every designer is right…